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Stephen Weaver  


East Sussex
City of London

Types of counselling: by phone, online and face to face

About me

I am currently working remotely and only offering Online Counselling or Telephone Counselling

  • UKCP-registered.
  • 15 years experience.
  • Anxiety and depression.
  • Relationship problems.
  • Compulsive or addictive behaviours.
  • Sexuality and spirituality.
  • Creativity and dreams.
  • Discernment and life-choices.
  • Gay and glbt issues.
  • Daytime and evening availability.
  • Convenient and attractive locations.

After degrees in English (Oxford) and Theology (London), I worked as a teacher and then for ten years as a priest, before training, first as a couples counsellor and then as a psychotherapist and supervisor at CCPE, London.

For five years I was the Gay Men's Sexual Health Counsellor at PACE, while also building a private practice in the West End/City and in Rye, East Sussex.

I am currently developing a project on the therapeutic use of photography.

I have a special interest in the inner life of spirituality and sexual identity and in helping individuals, couples and groups to live with integrity, creativity and compassion.
I work with men and women, individuals and couples, straight and gay, young and old.

In 15 years as a counsellor and psychotherapist, I have helped around 1,000 people and I try never to forget that I have sat in the client's place myself!


Therapy provides a warm and welcoming space in which you can find perspective, understanding, acceptance and healing.

As therapist I offer you compassion and insight to help facilitate growth and change.

Therapy is a collaborative process: I seek to be as honest and authentic as I can be and invite you to be the same.

Therapy could be of great help to you if ...
  • You are willing to take a fresh look at yourself
  • You could consider the possibility that you are partly responsible for the problems in your life
  • You feel ready to explore the instincts you have about the need for change.

Counselling is usually short-term (between 1-12 sessions) and typically addresses how to manage problems better. Firstly, we look at what has brought you to seek help.
Secondly, we survey the changes you might want to make. Thirdly, we consider the obstacles and/or levers which will allow you to move from where you are now to where you would prefer to be. Counselling is not about giving advice but about listening and helping you to feel more empowered in dealing with the challenges you are facing in your life.

Psychotherapy is more open-ended (anything from 3 months to 3 years) and addresses, not only the causes of some of the problems you face but also the purpose of them.
Often provoked by some sense of personal crisis, psychotherapy helps you to step back from outdmoded or distorted ways of being, to accept and mourn their loss and to acknowledge and integrate what is emerging in your life, summoning you to change.

  • Anxiety and fear
  • Compulsive behaviour
  • Creative blocks
  • Couple counselling
  • Decision-making and discernment
  • Depression
  • Dreamwork
  • Faith conflicts
  • Gay and lgbt issues
  • Life in the City of London
  • Life crises
  • Loss and bereavement
  • Low self-confidence & self-esteem
  • Midlife issues
  • Relationship issues
  • Sex & Internet "addiction"
  • Sexual health
  • Sexuality
  • Spirituality
  • Therapeutic use of photography
  • Stress
  • Supervision
You can learn more about how I work, about couples counselling and lgbt counselling on my website.


I began working as a couples counsellor in 1995, as an individual counsellor in 1999.
I qualified as a psychotherapist in 2001 and as a supervisor in 2003.

Since then I have worked in private practice, as a relationship counsellor with Marriage Care, for five years as HIV & Sexual Health Counsellor at PACE and as an affiliate counsellor in Employee Assistance Programmes, provided by BUPA, Ceridian Lifeworks and Right Corecare, among others.

I also conduct supervision with individuals and groups.

I currently have an average weekly caseload of 15 clients in two London locations.

Qualifications and Training

I hold a Certificate in Marital Counselling (1998) from the University College of Ripon and York St.John, Leeds.

I hold a Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy (2001) and a Diploma in Supervsion (2003), each accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), from the Centre for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education, London, which is a member of the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP).


For Individual therapy I work within a range of between £50 and £80 for a 50-minute session.
For Couples counselling I work within a range of between £60 and £100 for a 50-minute session.
For Supervision I work within a range of between £50 and £70 for a 50-minute session and between £70 and £90 for a 1.5 hour session

Professional membership

UKCP :  United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy

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